Parenting Beyond Conflict...    A six-week class to support separated and divorcing/divorced parents/ family members in raising children between two homes, minimizing the impact of conflict on the children, exploring strategies for communicating effectively, and  keeping the focus on the children and their safety.

                     Three offerings: A 
 Monday evening live Online* series; OR a Tuesday, evening in-person series (not in July) in Portland, Oregon
 
                                                     OR a Tuesday lunchtime live Online* series (New!); each meet for six weeks.  
                                     
Evening groups meet from 6:00-7:45 p.m.;  Lunchtime groups meet from 11:30 a.m. -1:00 p.m.  
 
                               Facilitated by Judith Swinney, J.D.        Email:  portlandmediator@aol.com      Phone:  503-972-5683
 
 
Next start dates:


 
Monday, July 9    (Live Online* Evening Group, 6:00-7:45 p.m.)  
 
OR
 
Tuesday, July 10 (Live Online* Lunchtime Group - 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.) NEW!
 
Later this year:
 
  
Monday, September 10 
(Live Online* Evening Group, 6:00-7:45 p.m.)  
 
 
OR
 
 
Tuesday, September  11 (Live Online* Lunchtime Group - 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.)
 
OR
 
Tuesday, September 11 ( In-Person Portland Evening Group - 6:00-7:45 p.m.)
 
 
These small groups meet for six weeks (evenings from 6:00-7:45 p.m., or lunchtime from 11:30 a.m.-1:00 p.m.), and explore a variety of concepts through class discussion, video, role-play and on-line and skill-building exercises.  We discuss traps to avoid, ways to protect children, stay sane, get un-stuck, and stay  out of court -  while keeping children safe.  Group participants value the support they get and give to each other.

Class fee is $225.00 per parent  and $100.00 for each step-parent/new partner/extended family member.
 
*Note:  The online class is for parents who can be seated in a private, quiet space away from others, especially children, and able to see/hear and be seen/heard by others.  We meet all together at the same time, via Zoom.  A phone screen will not be large enough to view all along with handouts.
 
To request a brochure by email or mail, or for more information, please send email to portlandmediator@aol.com, or call  503-972-5683.
 


Additional services include:

Supervised parenting time/reunification support, Parent education/coaching; support for parents and children (re)connecting safely and appropriately; Positive discipline; support for the safety and protection of children with an emphasis on prevention. 

For additional information or to discuss your particular needs, call Judith at 503-972-5683.

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Helpful resources:

Putting your Parenting Plan together:  www.ojd.state.or.us/familylaw
A great parenting plan (and safety-focused parenting plan) guide complete with forms for considering what will work for your unique family.

Uptoparents.org-for divorced/divorcing parents.  Helps parents keep the focus on the children-not to be missed.
Proudtoparent.org-for never-married parents raising children from two homes. 
Whileweheal.org   -for separated parents working through their issues.

A resource for fathers in general:  National Fatherhood Initiative - www.nfi.org

A resource for drug-free kids and their parents:  www.oregonpartnership.org

Trauma Nurses Talk Tough - Program & info on child passenger safety, pre-teen/teen brain maturation and safety, underage drinking, teen drivers, firearm safety (research, effective presentations): www.legacyhealth.org

Parent-teen/family mediation: www.resolutionsnorthwest.org
 
A Few Good Books:

What About the Kids?: Raising Your Kids Before, During and After Divorce; Judith Wallerstein
Mom's House, Dad's House; Making Two Homes for Your Child- Isolina  Ricci
Parenting After  Divorce - Philip Stahl
Divorced Dad's  Survival Book:  How to Stay Connected to Your Kids; David Knox
Raising Cain- Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys; Kindlon & Thompson
The Wonder of Boys- Michael Gurion
Reviving Ophelia - Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls; Mary Pipher
The Teen Brain Book- Who and What You Are; Dale Carlson
The Primal Teen; Barbara Strauch
Positive Discipline; Jane Nelson
Touchpoints:Your Child's Emotional and Behavioral Development;Brazelton  (0-3, 3-6 yrs.)
Caring for Your Baby and Young Child, American Adacemy of Pediatrics (2014 edition)

These free, confidential and interactive
web sites are highly recommended for Parents
:


Uptoparents.org - for divorced/divorcing parents

Proudtoparent.org-  for never-married parents